DEATH
I do not wish to die. Perhaps in the future that will change but right now I have no desire to be dead.
I'm probably underselling it. I have a huge desire to continue to enjoy being alive. There are plenty of changes I would like to see but if nothing changes significantly I still don't wish to be dead.
All of that is to establish that I have no secret desires or intentions that mental health professionals might want to talk to me about.
As a culture, we seem to be really confused about death. We know academically that the overwhelming majority of everything that has ever been alive (on this planet) has experienced death and we can extrapolate that eventually, everything that is currently alive will experience death. That includes humans. Me, you, them - we will all experience death.
So this is the part that makes no sense. Would you hand a thief a plate of food to punish them? Healthcare professionals are not, to the best of my knowledge, known to only provide breathing assistance to the truly evil. What about a glass of water, would you give one to a person that assaulted you? Everybody has to eat and drink and breathe so yea, giving food and water as punishment seems illogical and ineffective.
Everybody dies. Sooner, later, painfully, peacefully, comfortably or anguished or however but, history strongly suggests that die we will.
Sooooooooo, death penalty, amirite? Hypothetically, a guy rapes, tortures and kills a few folks. I would not be shocked by any number of family members of the unlucky few demanding that the perp be punished by being put to death. Why not sentence them to consuming a peppermint-tuna-garlic-vinegar milkshake? Everybody eats and (in theory) no one likes that dish. Everybody dies and most of us don't want to. Peppermint tunafish milkshakes all round.
Or is it all about the timing? Do we just fear/abhor/get-wierded out by death that comes at a time other than what we consider to be appropriate? Okay, I suppose we could give our murderous rapist his peppermint tunafish milkshake in the middle of the night.
I'm at the age where I can expect news of the passing of someone I know to come fast and frequently. As noted by a good friend who is no longer with us, the Universe is clumpy. Things happen where and when things happen. Lately that clumpiness seems to have manifested as a spate of deaths that were unexpected by me. There is a whole lot of lamentation going on. The death that happens to the young or the healthy or the good really gets our attention and the majority of the deaths that are inspiring this piece fell into one or more of those categories - delineations that I readily admit are relative and subjective. So I am thinking about death.
Is it a punishment? Is it?!?!?!? I participate in some groups on social media that are dedicated to the Singularity and to Transhumanism. Y'all look them up if you need to but suffice to say that folks that are opposed to death and in favor of social media will eventually find their way there. Death is anathema to a lot of us - the living. It could be our ignorance of what, if anything, is on the "other side" that vexes us so. (Or there could be others like me that have procrastinated sufficiently to justify an additional thousand years of life - so far.)
I was raised a Methodist. Heaven, Hell, virgin birth, etc etc. Dad was an AME minister. Because of that and my propensity for talking to most anyone most anytime, I have been to a lot of funerals. I have never been to a funeral where the loved ones left behind were happy about the demise of the focus of the homegoing. Why? Don't we want our loved ones in Heaven? Will a few days or months or years make a difference to those facing an eternity in Hell? Of all of the people I have known or been around is there no one that just enjoys the time they had with the deceased and celebrate their release? Even if we are a bit raw for that, shouldn't we be able to not see that death as a punishment? Why do we act as though we think a process all living things for untold eons have gone through and which all living things will go through is a punishment?
Unfortunately, I have only questions. I know that there are cultures that take a different approach to death but it is still more of a matter of degree. Babies are still being born. We could fill the place up pretty damn quick if death stopped but births continued so, we understand the need for physical death. So we know it is going to happen. We know it needs to happen. We know it is not just humans but everything that lives that will experience death. Yet, death remains a last resort, a punishment for the truly evil, a reason for sadness and sorrow,.
Ironically enough, simply dying is unlikely to be enough to give me the answers to my questions. It's a funny world, doncha think?
A calm and quiet drifting off to a permanent sleep hardly seems a sufficient penalty for mass murderers and worse. I'm certainly not suggesting that they should be allowed to walk among us. I am though, suggesting that we need to call things what they are. Putting Ted Bundy to death did not actually bring any of his victims back to life. His publicized demise did not dry the tears or assuage the guilt of any parent or loved one. What it did do was ensure that no future innocents would be subjected to Bundy's particular style of terror. So my suggestion is simply that we call it what it is. We could still sentence those who deserve it to "death ensurance". It won't make anyone cry less. It won't reduce anyone's guilt. All it could do it is to stop the citizenry at large from belief in the fiction that we have done anything but prevent future insults from that particular individual. That's all.
Every tear I have seen shed due to death has been shed by the living. If the so-called “death penalty” truly is punishment, think about who is being punished. To the best of my awareness, none of those given the penalty have had anything negative to say about it.